Also, we (the science/ public health communities) have known for a long time that lesbians have a larger average weight than hetero women. So any research or publication trying to make a big deal out of that “discovery” right now is being dishonest. They just want to continue to train you to fat shame…and use that fat shame to legitimize your lesphobia, just as the above quote describes.
we’ve taught girls to romanticise nearly everything a boy does. when i was younger i thought it was cute that boys chased the girl even after she said no. i loved it when after a girl moved away from a kiss, the guy would pull her back and force it on. i thought a guy saying ‘i won’t take a no for an answer’ was passionate and romantic. we’re literally always teaching girls to romanticise abusive traits.